The horse and carriage is a thing of the past, but love and marriage are still with us and still closely interrelated. Most American marriages, particularly first marriages
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young couples, are the result of
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attraction and affection
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than practical considerations.
In the United States, parents do not arrange marriages for their children. Teenagers begin
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in high school and usually find mates through their own academic and social
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.
Though young people feel
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to choose their friends from
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groups, most choose a mate of similar background.
This is
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in part to parental guidance. Parents cannot select spouses for their children, but they can usually
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choices by
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disapproval of someone they consider unsuitable.
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, marriages between members of different groups (interclass, interfaith, and interracial marriages) are increasing, probably because of the greater
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of today"s youth and the fact that they are restricted by
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prejudices than their parents. Many young people leave their home towns to attend college,
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in the armed forces,
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pursue a career in a bigger city.
Once away from home and family, they are more
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to date and marry outside their own social group.
In mobile American society, interclass marriages are neither
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nor shocking. Interfaith marriages are
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the rise particularly between Protestants and Catholics. On the other hand, interracial marriage is still very uncommon. It can be difficult for interracial couples to find a place to live, maintain friendships, and
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a family, Marriages between people of different national
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(but the same race and religion) have been commonplace here since colonial times.