The painful reality is that love is just not enough. I"ll admit that there are people who I love and who I still need to better understand. I hope I"ll continue my work to understand them. The willingness to understand is very important. It is not always easy, but healthy love is strengthened by the willingness to understand. Love without understanding will wilt like flowers without water.
Our egos are what seem to get in the way of understanding those who we love and care about. Often it is our need to be right that makes what others think and feel so wrong for us. I have certainly been quite guilty of this in some of my relationships.
As I have written repeatedly in my books, empathy, is truly the emotional glue that holds all close relationships together. Empathy allows us to slow down and try to walk in the shoes of those we love. The deeper our empathy, the deeper—and healthier—our love. Not all relationships are meant to be. Yet all relationships that are meant to flourish in a healthy way, must stress understanding just as much, if not more, than love.From the passage we know that ().
A.the author complains about her parents" being too understanding
B.the author has been studying marriages for more than 20 years
C.people divorced mainly because they didn"t love each other
D.some people divorced because they couldn"t understand each other
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It"s no good learning English without practice.
Cars turn into dead weapons when they are driven carelessly.
The Crimea also released CDs for sale in shops because ().
所有的公共场所都应完全禁止吸烟。
What is true about sales of music over the last year
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What effect has the Internet had on music piracy
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